Lord's Supper

Why meet with elders before communion?

Update: A good article to read first is: ‘Why every church should practice “open” and “closed” communion’

Last week, Stephen & James had the opportunity to spend time with Drew Gordon. Drew is an elder in the North American RP Church, and edits their denominational magazine, the RP Witness. One of the regular features of the magazine is a Q&A section, where commonly asked questions are answered.

One recent question was as follows:

Noah Bailey (who spent time in Airdrie as part of the ‘Semester in Scotland’ programme before entering the pastorate) sought to answer the question, and here are some of the key points:

“Elders make an effort to hear a credible profession of faith in Jesus. This profession needs three “witnesses”: a verbal statement of belief, baptism into the church, and membership in a Bible-believing church. These three corroborate the session’s belief that this person is in fact united to Christ by faith and thus able to partake of the Father’s feast as beloved and adopted children.

In 1 Corinthians 11:28, the Apostle Paul commands each individual believer to examine himself or herself prior to partaking of the Lord’s supper. Why not just leave it at that? Let each person self-examine and decide. We do not leave individual believers to themselves in self-examination because their partaking of the supper is also communal and public. These two principles require examination by others and not just the individual.

Communion, not surprisingly, is communal. Believers do not partake privately but together, as a body…Because we partake together, publicly declaring our participation in Jesus’ death, someone needs to sort out who partakes, that is, who demonstrates a credible faith in Christ.

Thankfully, Jesus gave such unifying, community-building people to His church (Eph. 4:11–16). The leaders of the church watch over the souls in the church (Heb. 13:7). They check to see if a person’s claim to be united to Christ is being made visible in his or her union with others (John 13:35). They make sure that all who are added to the Lord (Acts 5:14, 11:24) are likewise added to the number (Acts 2:41, 47). 

In the end, elders examine professing believers before serving the Supper to them because this is not a feast for strangers. We do not partake anonymously. This is the Supper of God’s children, and only siblings of Jesus Christ have a seat at the table…Elders examine visitors to worship because it is their extraordinary honour to watch over the people of God and say to a guest, “Welcome home, brother/sister. Let us partake together.”

On the broader question of why someone needs to be a member of a church to take communion, Stephen said the following as part of a sermon on the subject a few years ago:

“1st Corinthians 11:28 is a verse that was often printed on communion tokens. ‘Let a man examine himself, and so eat of the bread and drink of the cup’. And someone could say: ‘It says let a man examine himself. So it’s up to the individual! It’s not for someone else to decide for them!’ Clearly, the verse teaches the duty of self-examination. But to say it’s totally up to the individual doesn’t fit in with the rest of the NT’s teaching, particularly in regards to church discipline.

If we turn back a few chapters earlier to 1 Corinthians 5, we have the example of a man being excommunicated. In the words of chapter 5sv12 and 13, of someone inside the church being removed from among the people. Now that doesn’t mean the excommunicated person can’t come to church. If one of the aims of excommunication is to restore someone, then the best place for them to be on a Sunday is in church hearing God’s word. But the clearest sign of someone being removed from the church is that they can’t take the Lord’s Supper. Someone who is excommunicated is no longer in communion, no longer in fellowship, with the rest of the body. And the visible sign of that is that they can no longer be allowed to take the Lord’s Supper.

Matthew 18 gives us a step by step guide to church discipline. And the final step is to regard someone as a Gentile or a tax collector. In other words, as someone who isn’t part of the church and so has no access to its sacraments. The person may protest that they’re a born again Christian. But whatever they say about themselves, they’re not to be treated as one. And so the person in 1 Corinthians 5 can’t appeal to 1 Corinthians 11 and say ‘well it says let a man examine himself, and I’ve examined myself, and I don’t see any problem’. His own personal self-examination isn’t the final authority. The Christ appointed leaders of the church are. 1st Corinthians 11 has to be read in light of 1st Corinthians 5.

The sacraments must be tied to church membership, because they’re tied to church discipline. No-one receives the Lord’s Supper in the NT unless they’re under the oversight of the church.

Iain Murray who’s a church historian, explains it like this, when commenting about a Presbyterian minister in New Zealand in the 1920s. He says: ‘It needs to be understood that in Presbyterian churches the Lord’s Supper was only open to communicant members.  Only as regard for church discipline declined or disappeared was admission to the Lord’s Table left to the discretion of the individual worshipper.  He concludes: ‘Historically the Presbyterian churches never practised ‘open’ communion’.”

Questions to ask before Communion

This coming Lord’s Day we will celebrate the Lord’s Supper for the first time since the beginning of the coronavirus pandemic. As one pastor puts it:

‘The command to examine oneself before coming to the Lord’s Table is one of the most important things we can do as we seek to rightly participate in this holy meal. I suspect it is also one of hardest things we are called to do. We are busy and often over-committed, and the practice of quiet reflection and self-examination is a lost discipline. What can often help is a series of pointed questions that force us to consider the deeper and more important things of our lives.’

Below are some such questions, originally taken from the book Remember Him by J. W. Alexander (review by Paul Levy here), which may be helpful:

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  • “Have I seen myself to be, by nature and by practice, a lost and helpless sinner? Have I seen not only the sinfulness of particular acts and omissions, but that my heart is a seat and fountain of sin, and that in me, as unrenewed, there is no good thing? Has a view of this led me to despair of help from myself, and to see that I must be altogether indebted to Christ for salvation, and to the gracious aid of the Holy Spirit for strength and ability to perform my duty?

  • On what is my hope of acceptance with God founded? On my reformation? On my sorrow for sin? On my prayers? On my tears? On my good works and religious observances? Or on Christ alone, as my all in all? Has Christ ever appeared very precious to me? Have I ever felt great freedom in committing my soul to Him? If I have done this, has it been not only to be delivered from the punishment of sin, but also from the power, pollution, dominion, and very existence of sin within me?”

  • Do I hate all sin, and desire to be delivered from it, without any exception of a favourite lust? Do I pray much to be delivered from sin? Do I strive against it? Do I avoid temptation? Do I, in any measure, obtain the victory over sin? Have I so repented of it, that my soul is really set against it?

  • Have I counted the cost of following Christ, or of being truly religious? Am I ready to be detached from empty pleasures, from the indulgence of my lusts, and from a sinful conformity to the world? Can I face ridicule, contempt, and serious opposition? In the view of these things, am I willing to take up the cross, and to follow Christ wherever he shall lead me? Is it my solemn purpose, in reliance on his gracious aid, to cleave to him and to his cause and people, to the end of life?

  • Do I love holiness? Do I earnestly desire to be more and more conformed to God and to his holy law, to bear more and more the likeness of my Redeemer? Am I resolved, in God’s strength, to endeavour conscientiously to perform my whole duty, to God, to my neighbour, and to myself?

  • Do I conscientiously offer secret prayer daily? Do I ever experience delight in it? Have I a set time, and place, and order of exercise for performing this duty? Is it my purpose, as the head of a household, to maintain the worship of God in my family? Do I read a portion of the Holy Scriptures every day, and in a devout manner? Do I love the Bible? Do I ever perceive a sweetness in its truths? Do I find them suited to my necessities, and do I at times see a wonderful beauty, excellence, and glory in God’s Word? Do I take it as the ‘man of my counsel’ (Ps. 119:24), and endeavour to have both heart and life conformed to its demands?

  • Have I given myself away to God, solemnly and irrevocably, hoping for acceptance through Christ alone, and taking God in Christ, as the covenant God and satisfying portion of my soul? Does the glory of God appear to me the first, greatest, and best of all objects?

  • Have I such a love for mankind as was unknown to me before? Have I a great desire that the souls of men should be saved, by being brought to the Redeemer? Do I feel a peculiar love to God’s people, because they bear their Saviour’s image? Am I at peace with every fellow Christian? If not, have I made the endeavours to be reconciled? Do I, from the heart forgive all who have wronged me? Do I desire and endeavour to grow in grace and in the knowledge of Christ my Saviour, more and more? Am I willing to sit at his feet as a little child, and to submit my understanding implicitly to his teaching, imploring his Spirit to guide me into all necessary truth, to save me from all fatal errors, to enable me to receive the truth in the love of it, and to transform me more and more into a likeness of himself?

  • Do I love the Lord Jesus Christ? Do I especially love him as dying for my sins? Do I desire to remember him, in this his dying love, at his table? Am I sufficiently acquainted with the nature and design of this sacrament? Have I carefully considered the history of our Lord’s sufferings, in the four Gospels? Have I diligently read the accounts of this institution, in the New Testament? Am I ready, as a sinner redeemed by this blood, to go to this ordinance? Am I desirous of communion in it with Christ’s people? Am I willing to submit myself to the government and discipline of the Church? Do I feel it to be important to adorn Christian profession by a holy, exemplary, amiable, and blameless walk? Do I fear to bring a reproach on the cause of Christ? Am I afraid of backsliding, and of being left to return to a state of carelessness and indifference in religion? Have I any sufficient reason for withholding the profession of my faith? And what is my duty, in consideration of the possibility that I may be summoned into eternity before another communion service?